How much do you love being in a business where you have no clients, no customers and no distributors?

What about the MLM Network Marketers who only sign up their closest friends and family in their downline?

This Thursday night January 28, 2010 One Night Transformation is going to seriously blow the socks and shoes off your feet and this is why…

This weeks One Night Transformation is dedicated to the MLM, Network Marketer and Small Home Based business owners.

click here to register…

When you register I’ll give you 3 chapters from the #1 MLM Building tool in the world (bold claim but true.)

Learn how to attract and generate an endless amount of qualified people to you and your business…

Learn how to get paid whether they sign up or not…

When you’re crushing it in business…all the people who told you that you were crazy will be begging you to join your business.

See you Thursday Night…

P.S. Did I tell you that we are going to stream the event? Yes we are!

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I hosted a training call Saturday morning called “Climbing the Mountain.” It was POWERFUL!

You know a training is good when you are giving the training and you are learning and growing just as much if not more than anyone else.

One of my group friends was super excited to be on the call. This was her email to me after she missed it.

“OK, I missed the call.  I can’t believe I missed the call.  I registered for the call and all week I have been looking forward to the call;  I mean telling people about the call and genuinely excited about the call—and I missed it.  How do I stop beating myself up about that and increase my excitement about being in the program and go forward.  I know, if it was for me in that moment, I would have been there.  How do you handle disappointments like this or do you let yourself become disappointed like this?  Need your Help!”

Audri

Here’s my answer to her question….

Perspective

How often do you miss appointments, calls, trainings etc. If it’s a habit and  you miss more often than not then you have a problem.

Your system for calendering things or the lack thereof should be thrown in the trash and you better figure that out or it will end up costing you more than you’ll ever know.

I’m not just talking about money either. The cost of missing important meetings, phone calls and family time cannot always be measured but the effect can be devastating.

If missing the webinar for my friend was a fluke for example:

Her alarm was set for PM instead of AM…

Her cell phone alarm didn’t go off…

She didn’t schedule it when 99% of the time she schedules everything…

Then it was a fluke. All good. Seriously…it’s all good. It happens.

It’s happened to me numerous times and it’s no fun.

The worst thing you can do in a fluke situation is to get mad and beat yourself up about it.

Figure out what went wrong, course correct…and move forward…quickly.

Now, if you’re habitually doing this (missing meetings, missing your kids games, or kid’s karate tests or training calls, you’ve got a problem…a serious problem.

The answer: Do a serious fix it and correct it.

Disappointments come all the time. BUT, it’s how we deal with them. Dwelling on the negative is for suckers.

The only time you are allowed to dwell on the negative is when you are constructively and positively fixing it to turn it from a negative to a positive.

In retrospect, that’s how some of the best things in life are created.

Someone creates something…then someone comes along and doesn’t like it and then makes it better.

The Creators on this planet keep creating value that the world becomes a better place because someone’s negative was turned into a positive.

A couple tips for sickening increased and greater productivity.

1. SCHEDULE THINGS ON A CALENDAR.

Whether you use an old-school day planner, a piece of paper, a cell phone synced to Outlook…it doesn’t matter. The point is this: You must have some type of scheduler.

The danger is in NOT using a schedule and NOT calendaring things. There is too much in today’s world to distract us.

Attention and Time is what everyone wants from us.

If you’re not using a calendar to schedule appointments, reminders, meetings, more importantly date night, family time, time with the kids. YOU’RE LOSING OUT BIG TIME!

Think of the most successful people and companies. They have a clear agenda of what they want, where they are going and they create the plan to get there.

The more planned and prepared you are…the more you set yourself up for success as well as being able to handle the distractions and deal with the unexpected fires.

Of course you can break plans and be spontaneous and do things that are NOT on the plan…but don’t fool yourself into thinking you can remember every single thing going on in your life.

2. WRITE DOWN EVERYTHING YOU SAY YOU’RE GOING TO DO

How many times do you tell people “I’ll call you…yeah let’s hook up for lunch.”

If you don’t schedule or write it down..you’re simply setting yourself up to be a liar.

Not being a person of your word is so detrimental to not only your business, but to your charcter, your family and your legacy.

Don’t do it. It’s not worth it.

If you have a big family with lots of kids and you don’t have a calendar of little league games, school plays and parent teacher confernce…yep, something’s gonna give.

Although our human brains can do incredible things, we haven’t learned how to tap into it at full capacity. You will forget some things without a calendar or schedule.

If you are an entrepreneur and you don’t have scheduled out on your weekly or monthly calendar specifically when you are going to build your business, attend trainings, read and study, make phone calls etc…you’re losing money and business and you will fail.

Failure in context is not a single event. It is a build up of events that takes place or events that do not take place.

I’m the biggest advocated for failing early and failing often because that means you’re doing something.

But in this context without a calendar or schedule of things written down…you will NOT reach your goals, you’ll be less effective and you’ll be less productive.

The more value you create for people the more you will depended upon.

That is a great thing!

For the Creators in this world, our time is spent producing and creating maximum value for other people that we must learn how to manage our time wisely so as to be able to CREATE MAXIMUM VALUE and still give our most precious time to the ones we love the most.

For me, it’s me wife, my two boys, my family, my church and my friends. After them it turns to my community, my state and then this country.

Ultimately I am committed to making a difference on an international level.

I want the world to be a better place because I lived on it.

“No success outside the home can compensate for failure in the home.” David O. Mckay

If we can’t be good with the small things…we certainly won’t be great with the big things.

Become a wiser steward over what you currently have and I promise you’ll receive more!

You can do it!

Setema Gali

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I read the book The Alchemist because Will Smith said it was his favorite book. It’s an awesome book!

Love this video. You gotta watch it!

Pass it on!

“All you gotta do is decide. Choose and decide and the universe will get out of your way.”

“I want to be better so others can be better.”

“I want the world to be a better place because I lived here.”

CREATE!

Setema Gali

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A friend of mine asked “What books have changed your life?”

So here it is…

I understand clearly her question in context.

The truth is…books, things, jobs, situations, catastrophe, war…they don’t change our lives…

WE CHANGE OUR LIVES by the action we take, by the knowledge we internalize, by the we way choose to react to everything that happens to us.

“It’s not what happens to us that matters…it’s what happens within us that makes the difference.”

I’ve known many people who have suffered great loss and come out of it a better and stronger person for it.

I’ve also known many people who have suffered great loss and come out of the situation with a harder heart, greater bitterness and a more embedded victim-hood mentality.

So in context…these are the books that have have a profound and transforming effect on my life! Many are spiritual and religious. Many are business and personal-growth related.

Thanks Sandi for asking. The Red Font titles are the ones I’ve read in the past year.

1. The Book of Mormon-the most powerful on m life and I have read it like 100 times or so. I still discover pearls of wisdom in it when I read it.

2. The Bible

3. Think and Grow Rich

4. Rich Dad Poor Dad-My first financial book that transformed everything for me-2003-read it in 3 days in Alabama.

5. Failing Forward

6. Good to Great

7. Man’s Search For Meaning

8. Cashflow Quadrant

9. Men of Valor

10. Purpose Driven Life

11. Peacegiver

12. The Miracle of Forgivness

13. Driven From Within (Michael Jordan)-sick book

14. Screw It Let’s Do It-Richard Branson-

15. Uncommon-Tony Dungy

16. The Alchemist -Just finished this one -awesome stuff

17. Permission Marketing-Just finished this

18. Tribes

19. Crush It-Just barely finished this

20. L.E.A.P.

21. How To Win Friends and Influence People

22. The Game of Work

23. Strengths Finder 2.0

24. Execution-The Art of Getting Things Done

25. 7 Habits of Highly Effective People-read this in 1995 and still remember it like yesterday

26. Teaching By the Spirit-

27. Accidental Guru

28. Secrets of the Millionaire Mind

29. Remembering Wholeness

30. Jackrabbit Factor

31. Hidden Treasures

32. The Work and the Glory

33. The Master Key to Riches

34. Atlas Shrugged-still working on this bad boy-it’s powerful content for sure

35. Getting in the Gap

36. Peace, Happiness and Joy

37. Outliers

38. It’s Not About the Bike-really helped me after the NFL

39. The Laws of Lifetime Growth

40. Missed Fortune

41.  Lectures on Faith

42. In the Eye of the Storm-1996 when I read it…couldn’t put it down-I served a mission just like him.

43. How to Become a Total Failure

44. The Power of Focus

There are more books that are in bins. This is the list of books that I have sitting on the shelves in the office.

I’ve read more books since graduating from college than I did my whole life up to that point.

I love to learn and I love to apply what I learn so that I may see the results of my life!

I have a ton of eBooks that I have not included on this list either.

WHY DO I LOVE TO READ, LEARN AND STUDY?

Because I want somethings in life that require knowledge, skill, understanding…when it comes down to it…the things I want so badly require me to be a different person.

How do I become that person? Through learning and taking action.

Learning does NO GOOD if I continue to believe, think and behave the same way as I did before I read the book or watched the program or took the course.

How bad do you want whatever it is that you want?

There certainly is a price to pay for it. I usually buy one or two books a month. I usually read 3 or 4 books at the same time and finish them simultaneously.

I finished The Alchemis, Crush It and Tibes almost within 2 weeks of each other.

It’s how I started reading because I love books so I have books in the bathroom, books by my sink so when I brush my teeth I read.

“I carry books with me so when I am in line, or in traffic or waiting on an appointment I can read.“

I study scriptures and Holy Writ daily.

Garbage in…Garbage out.

Power in…More Power out!

I stopped watching T.V. about a year ago. I mean I watch…but it’s intentional. I watch 2 shows with my wife and we record them so there’s no commercials and wasted time.

LEVERAGE on TNT and LIE TO ME on FOX. Occasionally I’ll catch some American Idol with her but the time I watch T.V. is NEVER EVER EVER EVER mindless channel flipping. I’ll never sit and watch mindless endless T.V. There’s always something educational or purposeful about it.

I watch a full football game (which is rare) in like 45 minutes. No commercials, play to play, no half-time and then I move on with my day.

Depending on what you want, how bad you want it and why you want it…there will be no time for some of the things MOST people do.

• video games
• watching lots of TV
• surfing the net without purpose
• watching lots of Youtube video to be entertained
• camping on Facebook or twitter
• being lazy and idle
• doing only the easy things in life without purpose and vision
• solitaire
• Warcraft

Not that there is anything inherently wrong with some of these things…but what are the results of doing all of these

things?

Certainly not the results (goals) that I want in my life.

My current and life goal is to be an international life changer to inspire people to become the GREATEST VERSION of who they were created to be so they can in turn help everyone in this world they were supposed to help while they were alive as well as long after they pass away.

Playing video games, watching garbage on T.V. and wasting time…that certainly won’t get me there.

But if you don’t have goals…well, any action during the day will do just fine.

So what is YOUR Super Bowl Ring…your goal that you are daily working towards?

If you’re wandering through life aimlessly without purpose and goals and a vision of who you want to be and what you want to be…it’s not too late.

But consider this…

What is the real danger of you having no goals, end in mind, destination or vision for your life?

Pause…think about it…

What is the danger for your children and their children?

Pause…think about it…

What is the danger for those around you?

Pause…think about it…

It’s scary if you really think about it.

January is almost half way done and 99% of the people alive are still sleep walking and going through mundane motions.

Living is NOT going through the motions. I call that being a zombie.

Living is waking up each day with passion and purpose.

Living is being excited about the day ahead of you.

Living is knowing that you are doing something that is contributing to your family, your community…the world.

Living is giving life, love and happiness to others.

Living is doing what you love to do with passion and enthusiasm.

Living is enjoy the journey.

Living is growing!

Living is overcoming fears, doubts, obstacles and challenges!

What are your goals, visions and dreams? Your answer to this question will in part determine what you do daily?

What books have transformed your life?

I’d love to work with you. I put on free seminars to help people break the status quo of their current life. I’d love to meet you and continue to help you.

Click here to watch a powerful video of one of our events

Thanks again Sandi for asking the question…

Long answer but hope it helps.

SG

Setema Gali

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I have a friend who I went to high school and college with and she is a phenomenal athlete. She is going for Gold in the 2010 Winter Olympic Games in Vancouver.

With the new year just behind us here’s the big question…

WHAT ARE YOU GOING FOR THIS YEAR?

Let me tell you what I am going for this year…

I am going for 100,000 in 2010! Let me explain.

I’ve always been a goal setter. More importantly, I am a goal getter. From way back in elementary school through Junior High I had goals.

In high school everyone of  my goals I set I smashed (meaning I obtained it).

On to college the story was even better.

From NFL, business, money, marriage, life and kids, I’ve always had some insane clarity on what I truly wanted from life.

Among my new goals for the year and insights and inspirations that have driven me to do what I am doing is this…

I am committed to helping at least 100,000 people this year…and I will.

It’s possible the number might end up at closer to 1,000,000. But for sure…I’ve set the goal to create value for 100,000 people.

Through my books, my audios, my programs , webinars, seminars and blogs I am on a mission to help at least 100,000 people in the year 2010.

Let me know how I can help you accomplish your goals or what you are looking for.

Yes, I want to be not just a national speaker, trainer and author, I want to be an international presence…a  life-changer.

It’s humbling to have a vision of what you believe and know is your life’s calling, your Personal Legend, your Soul Purpose.

And when you have that vision…you have 1 of 2 choices. You either move towards it…or you deny it.

As you can tell, I am moving passionately towards what I believe mine is.

Part of that is to help 100,000 people accomplish one goal. To help 100,000 people have a life changing experience. To help 100,000 people experience a transformation.

This goal isn’t about me though. It’s about YOU and what I can do for YOU! It’s about what my network and team can do for you and what we can do for others.

So how will I do that?

I know the path I am on and what it will entail. But I would like to know from YOU what I can do to help YOU.

And for Pete’s sake (who is Pete anyways) don’t let fear grapple you and prevent you from commenting. Comment.

When you act in spite of fear things happen. I won’t tell you right now…but things always happen when we act in spite of the fear that paralyzes most people.

Comment on here and let me know how I can help you better your life, your situation, your business, your relationships, your bank account…or maybe just discovering your life’s mission as I have done.

I will share with you everything that I have learned from my life’s experience as well as connect you with my mentors, connections and hook-ups.

I’ve spent nearly six figures on programs, mentors, webinars, books etc.

I’ve experienced incredible business relationships, ups and downs, million dollar gains and million dollar loss.

I’ve traveled, spoken, drove the killer cars…had no car, foreclosures…yep,

I’ve been led by the Lord through some serious wilderness, financial wilderness, athletic wilderness, business wilderness and basic wilderness of life!

Through it all I have never lost site of what and who matters most to me and what it is that I truly believe I am supposed to learn from this and become because of this.

My faith has been tried to the core…but that’s what life is about, being tested and tried and passing through it faithfully.

“God will never try us above that which we can bear…but He will try us and stretch us to a limit that even we are unaware of.”

So here I am asking you how I can help you?

You get one shot at life…so go and get it. “Leave it all out on the field” as they say in sports.

I am leaving it all out on the field of life right now especially in this year 2010!

CREATE!

Setema

P.S. Once you set the intention of what you really truly are committed to and WHY you want it…everything begins to take place and shape and form for you. Do you know what you want out of 2010?

Comment and let me know!

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